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Need someone who fix a HORRIBLE marriage, the INABILITY to forgive, and anger issues. i really don't want anything but to be left alone and file for divorce in 3 yrs once i'm done with school. i'm just DONE. emotionally, mentally. My husband on the other hand just doesn't seem to get that. He doesn't get anything that doesn't require a hand holding and coddling. Please help 
Posted By : Over-It29 Date: 22 JUN 2013

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Hello,

Thank you for writing to us. The first step is also the hardest but also the most important. 

 After learning more specifics about your unique situation, we could discuss several options and  tools you will use to feel in control, less angry and ultimately happier. No one could fix someone's problems but I could give you my professional support, teach you tools to handle specific situations in your marriage, natural relaxation techniques and what it's determined as priority goals.

You will be able to always use what you learn in our sessions. It is  about your marriage but also an investment in YOU.

For  confidential communication, please go to my Therapist profile, read my credentials and email me a personal message. If you plan to do live chat, please give me a time. I  am on the EAST Coast (PA) I will not charge for this first email and will work out a payment schedule to meet your financial needs. Best wishes, Rodica  Mihalis, M.S. Counseling and Clinical Psychology.

Thank you.

Response By: Rodica Mihalis Date: 22 JUN 2013

Let us take things one at the time. You say that you need help with fixing the marriage, and then you say that you are done with it . Which one is it? I would suggest clarifying these things and then moving on. Do you have children? All these things need to be taken into account. If you want to work on this in the suggested way send me an email and we can start by clarifying your goals and then proceed to see what is best for you to do.
Response By: Prof. Aleksandar Fatic Date: 22 JUN 2013

Thank you for contacting Proven Therapy and sharing with me what is going on in your life right now that encouraged you to seek counseling. You are not alone, I am happy that you are seeking counseling to work out your inability to forgive and anger issues. You are no longer alone. I am available to help you get your life back. Please schedule a date and time that is convenient for you. You may contact me at: http://www.proventherapy.com/diane-470.html 

Diane Davis,LMHC
Response By: Dr. Diane Davis Date: 22 JUN 2013

Hello, 
I can see that you seem to be going through a difficult time in your marriage. I need to emphasize the fact that I do not have the power to "fix" anything. That power comes from within the client themselves. It is difficult to do couples counseling without both partners being willing participants. I would suggest that you speak with your spouse and be able to assess whether or not you are willing to seek counseling for the relationship. I come from a Christian perspective when I counsel. I would be more than happy to speak with the both of you, however, I need both participants to be willing to work towards a supportive and positive marriage. 
Thanks so much and blessings, 
Jamie 
Response By: Jamie Sclafani Date: 22 JUN 2013