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I am in need of some guidance. Long story short I was shot by my husband with a BB gun in May. He begged for a second chance do in July he moved back in but hasn't worked since he was fired from his job in May due to what he did (he was a cop). In November I moved out of my house and have made all the payments on every bill even though I m not there. So financially I am still taking care of him. He has convinced me that we are in this situation because I overreacted with being shot. I personally feel bad and don't know how to kick him out of our house and him have no where to go. He makes comments of living in his car and that just makes me feel bad. I have too big a heart and know I m being used I don't know how to get enough strength to stand up for myself. Please help me.
Posted By : Sunshine86 Date: 11 JAN 2016

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Hello, thanks for sharing you story, thoughts and feelings.  That was courageous of you.  I am willing to have a few sessions with you.  I hope to hear from you soon.
Response By: Tia Baxter Date: 2 FEB 2016

Dear Sunshine86,
I'm so sorry to read of the struggle you are going through.  I'd love to talk with you about gaining some personal strength, establishing boundaries.  I'd also support you in exploring your legal options according to the laws where you live. You can email me to let me know when is a good time to talk.

All the best,
Caroline
Response By: Caroline Artley Date: 11 JAN 2016

Hi Sunshine,

I strongly recommend you find a program for domestic violence victims in your area and go see them promptly. I think that will do a lot more for you at this point than chatting with a therapist.

Raffi
Response By: Raffi Bilek Date: 11 JAN 2016

Hi Sunshine86.  I am very sorry to hear that you're going through that.  Thank you for reaching out to us.  We do have such wonderful therapists here.  Please take a look and find someone you feel is a good fit for you.  I would love to chat with you.  I would love to help you find your own strength.  I will be back online in about three hours of you would like to chat with me.  Or you can send me an email with a good time for you.  Thanks again for reaching out to us.  Please take care and stay positive.  Tracie
Response By: Tracie Timme Date: 11 JAN 2016

Dear Sunshine,

Thank you for choosing us.

It is a graceful behaviour by you to forgive and accept your husband again. Please furnish the details about age and other clinical data like children from this marriage and other details. Rate your marriage as you experienced objectively into a successful, moderately successful, poor. Would you wish to save your marriage still?  Arrange an  email session  if you wish for the beginning and later you shall take a voice or text  session.

Sincerely,

Jamal

Response By: Jamal Hassan Date: 11 JAN 2016

Dear Sunshine,

You most likely need to examine your own reasons for letting these things happen to you. Your own experience of your husband and what it is in him that keeps you attracted to hin even though you don't want to be attracted. If you want to talk about thus pls. registet on this site and gove me a call at 4pm today your time. Aleksandar.
Response By: Prof. Aleksandar Fatic Date: 11 JAN 2016