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Prom on boyfriends computer
Regarding finding porn on my boyfriends computer. Makes me feel insecure
Posted By : Kamalani135 Date: 19 DEC 2015

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Response By: Tia Baxter Date: 2 FEB 2016

Hello Kamalani,
You are shocked to find porn on your boyfriend's computer. Its a very natural reaction that you feel insecure about the relationship. You are not sure what is he doing with the porn. This is something we can discuss in detail. Kindly opt for obtaining professional help. I am willing to work with you. Text chat, video, or email sessions. 
Response By: Dr. Joseph George Date: 20 DEC 2015

The question is are you in a stable relationship, is it physical and emotional?
Response By: Linda Harris Date: 19 DEC 2015

Dear Kamal,
It's an unhappy surprise to see what your boyfriend has been doing on the internet. It must feel like a betrayal. However, it's better not to jump to conclusions until you get more information. We can work together to better understand the situation and then you can decide what you want to do. In the meantime, try to soothe your unrest.

Regards,
Linda


Response By: Linda Harris Date: 19 DEC 2015

Dear Kamal,
Good  wishes. By the way if we know the respective ages of you and your boy friend would help us to have our clinical opinion on this small fade. It is just normal in teens and young adults to have some arousal gained from them. If has become an obsession we shall definitely look into it. Ok.. Nothing to feel insecure about the relationship. It is a mild aberration thats all.Give  more details on an email session we shall handle it well.

Sincerely,
Jamal
Response By: Jamal Hassan Date: 19 DEC 2015

I understand that it upsets you.  We can talk about what's going on.  If you would like to chat I will be online in about 30 mins.  Take care   Tracie
Response By: Tracie Timme Date: 19 DEC 2015

Hi Kamalani135,

I can understand how this could be disturbing to you.  I do a lot of work with couples where there are problems with pornography, infidelity, and the like. Would be happy to chat with you about this.

All the best,

Raffi
Response By: Raffi Bilek Date: 19 DEC 2015