|Hello Olive 123,
You are correct, the life problem you are describing is hard and confusing. Please know, there is help available and you have choices.
You will be able to determine who is the best therapist match. May I suggest that you consult the detailed descriptions/qualifications and therapy styles displayed if you click the therapists' name/picture.
If you wish to ask me any details, please click on the email icon next to my name and I'd be happy to answer your questions privately. I am located on the East Coast of the US and am online when the icons show green, or you could email me and make a specific appointment. I plan to be online today/evening too.
Wishing you the best and to make the most helpful decision.
Rodica Mihalis, M.S. Counseling and Clinical Psychology