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Hello My wife and I love each other very much but there was some bad dictions and negativity and now she wants to separate and move out. I feel she is hurt, frustrated and in pain and hasnt forgiven me for what has happened. What can i do to no have her not move out and not separate and repair the marriage. thanks
Posted By : ddoubledwc Date: 23 MAY 2013

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Do you and your wife still talk with each other?
Response By: Prof. Aleksandar Fatic Date: 27 MAY 2013


Often when couples who have hurt one another, try to heal and resolve their differences, their pain gets in the way and communicating effectively becomes difficult. If you haven't tried counseling I would encourage you to discuss this option with your wife. Perhaps she would agree if you suggest  trying to resolve your marital problems with a neutral and professional third party present. A trained therapist can help each of you learn to understand the root of the problems, develop effective problem solving strategies and teach you both to communicate "safely" with understanding and compassion.

I wish you the best of luck. Please feel free to contact me if you feel i can be of help to you!

 

Morgan

Response By: Morgan Sutton, LPC Date: 24 MAY 2013

It sounds to me like you are trying to take the steps towards making things work by reaching out for help. Does she know you are doing this?  Maybe making an appointment would be helpful with a therapist together would be helpful.i would like to help you if you would like or reach out to someone you feel will help you. 

Tammy 
Response By: Tamara Petrelli Date: 23 MAY 2013