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Posted By : syrus Date: 8 OCT 2016

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Hello Syrus,

Thanks for your honesty! The first step is in recognizing that the affair has occurred.  It is a hurting feeling

anytime we go through a partner's love affair.  We feel cheated- alone and a host of other emotions surfaces.

It is important that you make a decision to either trust her or walk away from the relationship. If you decide

to work this out, know that the process of re-establishing intimacy will take time.  We are all  here at Proven

Therapy to guide you through the process of making healthy decisions about trusting again and to get back

on the road to establishing stronger connections with the ones closest to you.  Again thanks for sharing!!!


Response By: Natasha Smith, MA, LCPC Date: 8 OCT 2016

Dear Syrus,

Good  wishes.  from your two word  expression no professional shall do anything. Please  choose one of our panelists and contact with the case  history through email sessions for the start. You will get the sessions right there. Thank you and we assure the best for you.


Response By: Jamal Hassan Date: 8 OCT 2016

Hi Syrus. An affair is a breach of attachment. You must decide if trust can be possible. If it can then I recommend couples counselling.

All the best
Response By: Janette Strokappe Date: 8 OCT 2016

Hello Syrus,
It is very painful to experience an infidelity. However, there are ways to cope what has happened so that you can work through either to heal or leave your relationship. 
I will be there for you during the process.
Message me if you are interested.

Regards, Linda 
Response By: Linda Harris Date: 8 OCT 2016

Hello Syrus,
Thank you for reaching out.  I'm sorry you are having this trouble.  There are many good therapists here to help you through this.  Please look through and find one you feel is a good fit for you.  I am online now if you would like to chat with me.  Take care  Stay positive.   Tracie
Response By: Tracie Timme Date: 8 OCT 2016