I understand that this is a very painful experience for you to go through particularly with close family
members. The first step is in owning that you need the confidence to help assist you in saving your
marriage. You are free to chat with me via email and I will point you in the right direction to build
your confidence and better manage to your relationship issues with your wife. Thanks for sharing!
I am a marital and family therapist. I agree that all effort to save your marriage should be made especially because of the children. I would want to know what brought your wife to the point that she is considering leaving. As she is the one considering leaving, any counselling should involve your wife.
All the best,